Lorna Tolentino: Lovely and Timeless

by REYMA BUAN-DEVEZA

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Actress Lorna Tolentino said listening to songs of hope and inspiration has helped ease the pain of losing her husband Rudy "Daboy" Fernandez.

Tolentino, who lost Daboy to cancer nine months ago, said letting go and healing is a process that takes a long time.

In an interview with abs-cbnNEWS.com, Tolentino shared that listening to "Wings of The Soul: H.O.P.E. (Healing of Pain and Enlightenment)," which she recorded with other friends from showbiz for the memory of Daboy, has helped her cope with sadness.

Tolentino said she plays "Wings of the Soul" CD whenever she misses her hubby.

"I did that right after noong matapos ang album. Wala kaming ginawa kung hindi patugtugin ng mga bata," she said.

She and her sons long for Daboy whenever they listen to the songs, and they can't help but turn emotional when they hear the music.

Recording the album was a big help in the healing process, she said.

"Sa palagay ko naman, kapag mayroon kang outlet noong dinadaanan mo, this is one way hindi ba na parang isang outlet mo na maging busy ka? At the same time, nare-remind ka na kumbaga, marami pang magagandang mangyayari sa buhay mo as long as buhay ka, although mas maganda ‘yong kapag wala ka na at kapiling mo ang Panginoon, iba din naman ‘yon," Tolentino told abs-cbnNEWS.com.

Dreams about Daboy

Tolentino also disclosed that she feels happy despite her loss since Daboy always visits her in her dreams.

Her dreams with Daboy are never about serious matters but are always about the highs of their life together. She said this is probably because Daboy always wanted her to be always happy.

"H.O.P.E. Vol. 2: Wings of The Soul" deals with acceptance, surrendering and moving on. While H.O.P.E. Volume 1 is mainly for those who have cancer or for those who are sick, "Wings of The Soul" is for those who take care of the sick, especially people who have a loved one with cancer.

In memory of Daboy, who was known for being generous, proceeds of "Wings of the Soul" will go to the Rudy Fernandez Cancer Foundation Inc. and Pinky Cares Foundation. Both organizations help cancer patients.

The stars who participated in "H.O.P.E. Vol. 2" were chosen for a specific reason, and each song they rendered has a particular significance and meaning.

The artists who recorded the CD were Sharon Cuneta (Special Memory), Tirso Cruz III (Awit ni Daboy), Sen. Jinggoy Estrada, Sen. Bong Revilla and Philip Salvador (Doon Lang), Bodie Cruz, Christopher de Leon, Boboy Mortiz and Ricky Davao (Stand By Me), Aga Muhlach (Let It Be), Gary Valenciano (My Life Is In Your Hands),

According to Star Records, "Wings of the Soul: H.O.P.E. Vol. 2" is already a certified Gold Record.

Tolentino is also hoping that a concert for a cause will follow the two albums.

She will be soon be visible on screens promoting the inspirational CD. She will also be busy with her upcoming television series on ABS-CBN with actor Gabby Concepcion.